How to Find Your First Freelance Clients
Become a Freelancer! · Part 3 of 5
Your profile is sharp and your rate is calculated. Now comes the step that makes freelancing real: your first conversation with a potential client. The good news is that you don’t need a big campaign. A short list, a personal message and a well-prepared conversation are enough to get started.
1. Start with ten relevant contacts
Write down ten people who already know your work: former colleagues, project managers, clients from your employed years and decision-makers in your network. Ten is not a success formula, just a practical number you can work through in one week. Begin with those you find easiest to approach.
The Netherlands Chamber of Commerce (KVK) also recommends starting with a clear picture of who your potential clients are. Your offer sentence from Part 1: How to Market Your Skills helps you choose.
2. Write personally, not to everyone
A short, individual message works better than a mass mailing. Use contact channels the person already shares with you, and refer to something you did together:
“I now support companies with [task]. I remember our joint project on [topic]. Do you currently have a similar initiative – or someone I should talk to about it?”
Keep it brief and leave room for a simple “not right now”. The KVK’s guide to the elevator pitch shows how to explain your offer in a few sentences.
3. Use the first call to understand
In the first conversation, listen before you offer. A handful of questions is enough:
- What exactly needs to be done, and what should the result be?
- When should the work start?
- Who is your contact, and who decides?
- What still needs to be clarified internally?

Take notes. They form the basis for your proposal and your fee from Part 2: Setting Your First Freelance Rate.
4. Always agree on a next step
Don’t end with “we’ll be in touch”. Suggest something concrete: a short proposal, a follow-up call or an introduction to the decision-maker. Then send a friendly summary:
“Thank you for our conversation. As agreed, I will send you a proposal for [scope] by [date], including budget and possible start. On your side, [open point] still needs to be clarified.”
If you hear nothing, one polite reminder after about a week is fine. The KVK’s acquisition strategies also stress building relationships over time.
5. Your starter plan for this week
- Day 1: list your ten contacts and check your profile.
- Days 2–3: ask three of them for a personal conversation.
- Days 4–5: review suitable projects, express interest in specific ones and note what you learn.
Your personal network is a good start, and an online profile on a project platform extends it to people you don’t know yet. The KVK describes how different marketing channels complement each other. For a broader overview, read our guide to project acquisition for IT freelancers.
Not every conversation leads to a project. Each one helps you sharpen your offer.
In Part 4: registration, contracts and protection.